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Why do guys on dating apps often just first message "hey" or "hey how are you" instead of being more creative and unique? How do they think being a copycat will stand out?

11.06.2025 21:35

Why do guys on dating apps often just first message "hey" or "hey how are you" instead of being more creative and unique? How do they think being a copycat will stand out?

It's one of the reason why pickup trainings suck.

No country for ugly people…

BTW all the girls start their messages with a similar simple greeting.

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If a hot girl pays attention to me it doesn't really matter what she says. Her attention is enough.

Because it's a standard phrase to start communication.

People choose a partner by sexual attractiveness in the first place.

I saw a post on X which says "control your lust & you'll understand how boring 90% of women are." What do you think about it? Do you agree or disagree? Why?

If she is not creative in her messages, no guy would care either.

Of course, farther on when you start chatting moreover dating being smart and creative will really impress, but only as a SUPPLEMENT to attractive look.

That's not an interview for a stand-up artist.

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